Change and Controlling Your Own Narrative
Change is an almost elemental part of the human experience. It is next to impossible to escape. Whether we seek it out or it is brought to bear on us, change can be wildly exciting and frightening all at the same time. Even when sought out, change can be amazingly uncomfortable. Change happens whether you like it or not, often during the most mundane times rather than the extraordinary when you might expect it.
Change we seek or positive opportunities we stumble upon can be the most difficult to bring about. Success at effecting the change we seek can be rare. It often only comes when previously unseen or overlooked influences are recognized and addressed. But that is not easy to do.
David Maxfield — the author of three New York Times bestsellers, “Influencer,” “Crucial Accountability,” and “Change Anything” — has identified some things that can help. From his perspective, if you want to be successful you need to:
- Examine your own narrative. Pay particular attention to any self-defeating excuses for maintaining the status quo.
- Recognize hidden influences and other influences that keep you stuck
- Address all the obstacles to your success in effecting the change
Whether you view a change as a positive or a negative, all change is a starting point to a narrative over which you have total control over. Make it the best story you can tell.